Hello friends,
I had the pleasure of being a guest on Kristena Mears website. You can check it out her page here. She allowed me to post all things writing and my books.
See below.
Author, Wife, Busy Mom, A Woman after God's Heart.
Hello friends,
I had the pleasure of being a guest on Kristena Mears website. You can check it out her page here. She allowed me to post all things writing and my books.
See below.
The worst thing that can happen to a writer is becoming “blocked” in their writings. If you do a search on “overcoming writer’s block” on the internet, you’ll find almost five million results.
What about writer’s burnout? I did a search and found over thirty-nine million results. That’s extraordinary. In my author circles, being blocked seems to supersede burnout. It looks like I may be wrong according to the web or maybe nobody wants to talk about “burnout” because that would mean you’ve failed or are a quitter.
Thinking of the difference between blocked and burnout has led me to do additional research.
I bring this subject up only because I needed to find the distinction between “blocked” and “burnout”. I’ve written about writer’s block, see:
This however is different. I’m coming off my 4th book release, “She Made It Matter”. I did blogs, podcasts, interviews, and then the holidays hit, and now here we are almost at the end of January, and I’m utterly exhausted. I’m at a loss and desire to reinvent myself with other writing projects, and I’m struggling in finding other means of promoting my book.
My home life has been a bit chaotic too; my kids are doing both eLearning and hybrid (in-person learning), and there has been many stressors affecting my creativity. So, I thought I had writer’s block, as I’ve been having difficulty writing anything. But now, I realize it might be burnout.
“Burnout can be defined as a loss of enthusiasm, energy, idealism, perspective, and purpose; it has been described as trying to run a marathon at full speed.”― Kathleen Kendall-Tackett Ph.D.
So, I made a list of my issues plaguing my creative juices:
I found that that the biggest factors were #1 and #5.
I was having trouble saying “no” and accepting things when my plate was overflowing, and therefore wasn’t doing what I really wanted to do, and even take care of myself. Too many distractions and noise was crowding my life.
One of my favorite quotes is this:
“I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived.” ― Henry David Thoreau
I’m feeling I need to go into the woods right now and do a little living deliberately. I often tell people that my two biggest addictions are reading and writing. I explain it this way…
“I have two addictions: reading and writing. I feel restless and empty when I can’t read fiction, write my deepest thoughts in my journal, or even write down story ideas. Writing calms me, centers me, and provides a healthy outlet for my communication with imaginary friends.”
So, what can I do to re-energize myself?
I also need to give myself grace to slow down and not always be doing things to please others. And maybe, just maybe, I can get into writing again.
I ran across something interesting: “give my busy mind a vacation.”
That sounds really good right now. A mind vacation. I think that’s what I need. Hmm…no need to reflect on it further.
Have you felt burnout in writing? What did you do? I’d love to hear your best practices.
Until next time…
Be well. Be safe. Be happy.
Resources
How to Overcome Writer’s Burnout (thewritepractice.com)
4 Effective Ways to Beat Writer’s Burnout | Positive Writer
Burnout for Writers | Psychology Today
Burnout Quotes (102 quotes) (goodreads.com)
Writer’s Burnout: Causes, Conditions, and Cures | Two Drops of Ink: A Literary Blog
Writer’s Burnout—it’s really real – BennettInk.com
18 Tips to Overcome Writer’s Burnout | WTD (writetodone.com)
Donald J. Trump wrote “The Art of the Deal,” I’m a writer whose penned tall tales while trying to stay real and true to my writing.
We can agree that this 2020 year has been interesting. For those of us publishing books whether it’s been via traditional publishers, or like me, indie publishing, things have certainly been more challenging.
Reading is up. Statistics will tell us. See References below.
I’ve been reading a lot more too while preparing my latest release, “She Made It Matter”. An Inspirational/Christian drama about one woman’s fight to regain sobriety, find salvation, and earn forgiveness after years of guilt from being abandoned by her mother and then losing her brother to cancer, a struggle to vanquish the demons of her past and make her life right again.
And, since I’ve had the time, I’ve also been experimenting with a lot more tools and resources to get exposure for my book. Will it help? I don’t know. Time will tell.
Any published author will also tell you that promotion and marketing are the most challenging of responsibilities when it comes to publishing. I’m normally a shy person, but I’ve had to dig really deep to find my courage and push myself beyond the limits to “seize the moment”.
Here are a few takeaways and things I did on my social media platforms that may help a fellow author or two:
I’ve talked to myself and to my computer camera more than I’ve wanted to. Lol! But, I believe the best conversations are with yourself, anyway.
So, I’ve put myself out there. I’ve tripped up and stumbled on those videos, but I’ve still kept them true to its form because I’m not a “Hollywood” star, or a renowned bestselling author. “… I’m just a ‘nobody’ who uses storytelling to encourage others to find their purpose and save their souls.”
The reality is, like my characters who are flawed, and because I write realistic drama with an inspirational/Christian flare, I too, am flawed and broken. I want my readers to know that I’m a real person. And, writing is not glamourous work. For me, it’s dutiful, inspiring, life changing, and adventurous.
I often tell people that I have two addictions: reading and writing. I feel restless and empty when I can’t read fiction, write my deepest thoughts in my journal, or even write down story ideas. Writing calms me, centers me, and provides a healthy outlet for my communication with imaginary friends.
I am the communication tool to share and showcase my characters. If they influence readers to be better versions of themselves, then why not? If my writing directs someone to open up their Bible, then so be it. If my writing only touches the few, then I’ve done my job. I write for an audience of ONE, my savior, Jesus Christ. He gave me the gift of storytelling, and I am obliged to honor that.
So, if anything I’ve learned during Coronavirus and quarantine is that I can take chance. I can RESTART just where I am. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.
So, fellow writes/authors/readers don’t be afraid to be REAL. The world is full of fakes and falsities already.
If only everyone WOULD BE real.
Music inspiration for this post: Mandisa, “What if we were real”.
Until next time…
Be well. Be safe. Be happy.
References:
If you are interested in buying the book, click here. Available wherever books are sold.
https://www.amazon.com/Trump-Art-Deal-Donald-J-ebook/dp/B000SEGE6M
https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2020/july/state-of-bible-reading-coronavirus-barna-abs.html
https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-52048582
https://www.microsoft.com/en-us/p/movie-maker-10-free/9mvfq4lmz6c9?activetab=pivot:overviewtab
She Made It Matter book trailer
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